Vjayanthimala in Amrapali (1966)
yes i love idle chatter about weather and food and routines and likes and dislikes and small things and idle chatter that opens up and allows for the sharing of bigger things and heart felt things and then goes back to small things and what are you doing tomorrow and this has been nice talk soon. communication doesn’t always have to be a deep thing sometimes it’s just nice to hear a voice and respond to it :-)
“If all goes well, I shall disappear for some time and there will be no way to get hold of me.”
— Hermann Hesse, from a letter to Conrad Haussmann written c. July 1911
High schoolers: ugh that person is weird because they have some minor superficial differences from the rest of us what a freak
College students: I saw a dude with green hair riding a unicycle around campus I would literally kill to be that cool
For one semester in undergrad I sometimes saw a woman in a yellow hijab riding around on her skateboard while wearing a pikachu onesie and I pray every day that she is living her best life.
you are lovable, even if:
- someone didn’t love you in the past.
- someone doesn’t love you back.
- someone said you weren’t.
- you believe you aren’t.
a lot of young girls need to realize that keeping friendships alive gets so hard after high school/uni and that you have to actively nurture your friendships if you want them to last yes even the friendships of 2 decades….. your 20s are so disorienting and trauamtizing no one can afford to take friendships for granted… everybody worries about not finding a romantic partner lets start worrying about being friendless by the time you hit 30
nirmohi-premika
